40 marbles or more...

I thought this was interesting.  I had lunch with a friend today and as we both were lamenting the sad state of our marriages she told me about a conversation she had with a therapist.  Apparently if you give your husband a jar filled with 40 marbles, at any point when he wants to have sex he can give you a marble.  Now once you have received the marble you have 24 hours to make good on your promise of sex. 

OK this does not sound bad but....what if your husband wants sex like 5 nights in a row?  Can you veto at any point.  Plus does he just hand you the marble at breakfast or does he leave it hidden in different places around the house.Oh and what happens if you run out of marbles in like June, no more sex for the year?

Its an interesting thought and idea, I am just not sure that this would work in our house.  Something to think about though.

Do you ever just not want to have sex?

I am in a bit of a slump.  I just don't want to have sex....at all!  Usually I can get geared up for it and actually look forward to it but the past few weeks I have not been able to muster that up at all.  Oh, I have had a few flashes of want and even had a bit of pity sex (pity on my husband) but the overall urge has just flown the coop.  My husband is having a heyday with this, as you can imagine and we have been fighting a lot.  I am working on it but this better end soon or else my husband really is going to find that hot, young, blond with big boobs.