I am feeling a little guilty...

I live fairly far from my closest friends and family (3 states away).  Lately I have been extremely homesick and complaining a lot about where we live and missing everyone.  I was told when we moved down here that it would only be for 2-4 years.  We are coming up on the 5 year mark with no end in sight (who knew the economy would collapse).  I have a tendency to take all of this out on my husband who I know is under a lot of stress at work.  I need a better outlet but I also need him to realize how much I don't want our children raised where we currently are.  Just venting a little so I will not vent to him.  Point being, its not always the men that are a pain in the ass.