Who has the responsiblity..

I try to make a hair appointment and I have to ask 4 different people to make sure that the children are picked up and activities are covered.  My husband wants to have drinks after work or go run errands and he just goes.  Case in point; Friday is a half day for the children and they get out of school at 12:00.  I am going to have to get there to pick them up because the husband is going to a golf tournament.  Nope, he did not ask if this worked with my schedule, he just decided he wanted to go.   Just a little observation from my day...